Category: death-and-dying
- Family HistoryMy Father’s Pastimes My father was one of the worst golfers who ever lived. He was a big guy, and he’d been an athlete when he was younger (he claimed that in high school he was the entire track team, competing in every event. A track meet was like a decathlon for him). He also, as ...Read more
- Making a ManA Lesson Before Dying a novel by Ernest J. Gaines. From Gaines: Four Novels. Library of America. pp. 585-800. ***** I could make various aesthetic quibbles about A Lesson Before Dying; some minor things drove me crazy as I read, and I wished I could have edited the book (I imagine Gaines suffered from the problem ...Read more
- He Hit the Wall and It DisappearedPeter S. 1945-2025 I met Peter some years ago, before the pandemic, when we both volunteered at Catholic Charities. I can’t remember how we struck up a conversation, but we had many things in common, including an interest in writing, and decided to get together. He lived in Marshall, a small town about thirty minutes from ...Read more
- Charmed LifeThe Very Heart of It: New York Diaries, 1983-1994 by Thomas Mallon. Knopf. 573 pp. $40.00. ***** It seems forever since I’ve posted on my website, but I spent much of July reading and reviewing a new biography of Peter Matthiessen for the winter issue of Tricycle. I’m also still reading bits and pieces of Faulkner ...Read more
- The Man HimselfMiracles and Wonders: The Historical Mystery of Jesus by Elaine Pagels. Doubleday. 320 pp. $30.00. ***** Mark Twain tells a story about a typesetter from the days of hot type, when things were a lot more difficult than they are now. The young man was setting a sermon in type, and after the first appearance of ...Read more
- Unfinished LivesLincoln in the Bardo a novel by George Saunders. Random House. 343 pp. ***** I haven’t been a fan of George Saunders’ short stories. I read Tenth of December with admiration but without much pleasure. The stories seemed clever and aesthetically interesting, but I couldn’t get into them as narratives. I’m more a John O’Hara guy. ...Read more
- Losing ItBetween the Temples a film by Nathan Silver. With Jason Schwartzman, Carol Kane, Robert Smigel, Caroline Aaron, Madeleine Weinstein. Streaming on Netflix. **** Between the Temples has a homegrown, home-movieish feeling that I associate with movies from the sixties and seventies (the golden age of cinema as far as I’m concerned). From the opening shot, where ...Read more
- Facing DeathHis Three Daughters a film by Azazel Jacobs. With Carrie Coon, Natasha Lyonne, Elizabeth Olsen, Jovan Adepo, Jay O. Sanders. Streaming on Netflix. ***** His Three Daughters is a sleeper, a Netflix original that we watched because we were fishing around for something to watch on a Saturday night, and it had just been reviewed in ...Read more
- Roll Out the OldstersThelma a film by Josh Margolis. With June Squibb, Fred Hechinger, Parker Posey, Clark Gregg, Richard Roundtree. Streaming (for a fee) on Apple+. **** Thelma is an oldster movie, a genre I haven’t written about for some time but which has not gone away. It is a crime movie in which the person going after the ...Read more
- Academics as a Blood SportStoner a novel by John Williams. From John Williams: Collected Novels. Daniel Mendelsohn, editor. Library of America. pp. 257-486 **** William Stoner, after growing up on a hardscrabble farm in rural Missouri, has two major epiphanies in his early adulthood. The first occurs when he attends the University of Missouri as an agricultural student, and takes ...Read more
- Perennial WisdomOpen Secrets: The Letters of Reb Yerachmiel ben Yisrael by Rami M. Shapiro. Monkfish. 128 pp. $13.36 ***** Rabbi Rami Shapiro is one of the great reconcilers of spiritual traditions in the world today. In books like Judaism Without Tribalism, Perennial Wisdom for the Spiritually Independent, and Minyan: Ten Principles for Living a Life of Integrity, ...Read more
- Drag Queen to Bodhisattva Street Zen: The Life & Works of Issan Dorsey by David Schneider. Shambhala. 246 pp. ***** I resisted reading this book for a long time. Back in the early nineties, when my wife was in divinity school and we began meditating, she worked one summer at an AIDS hospice in Boston and continued to work with ...Read more
- My Life Is Disappearing Before My Eyes IIJerry West (1938-2024) The woman on the phone spoke with a throaty, cultivated, Southern accent. She had called to speak to my father. But when I answered, she said, “David. This is your Aunt Georgia Wade.” She wasn’t really my aunt. She was one of those Southern aunts, women who used that title to mean she was ...Read more
- My Life Is Disappearing Before My EyesRick Davison 1948-2023 The first thing you noticed about him was his appearance. He had a large, oblong-shaped head, which he kept closely cropped, small ears, severe heavy eyebrows. I believe I heard that he still had some of his baby teeth, that his adult teeth never came in. He was a big guy, but hunched ...Read more
- Wounded HealerJames Dykes (1950-2024) Hanging in the waiting room of Jim Dykes’ office—a large homey building that had been a famous hippie house in the Sixties, when I was in college—was a mammoth painting of Jesus. That seemed characteristic of the man. He seemed to be saying that Jesus was the ultimate healer—I think he felt that ...Read more
- Let It RingTelephone a novel by Percival Everett. Graywolf Press. 216 pp. **** I had thought of Percival Everett as an offbeat comic novelist who sat down to write a novel with no idea where it was headed (see . I Am Not Sidney Poitier. Even Erasure, though a biting satire, had a comic premise, and the novel ...Read more
- The Nothing of GodShe was scorned, kicked around, physically abused, sexually abused, told that she doesn’t count, that she barely even exists. Somehow it is these very things that give her the resources to undertake this adventure.Read more
- Pandemic Without PanicThe Vulnerables a novel by Sigrid Nunez. Riverhead Books. 242 pp. **** Early reviewers of Sigrid Nunez’ The Vulnerables are linking it to her most recent novels (The Friend, which won a National Book Award, and What Are You Going Through, which was equally deserving of that award), seeing the three books as a trilogy. The ...Read more
- No Full StopSeptology a novel by Jon Fosse. Transit Books. 667 pp. $22.95 ***** Often when I finish a long novel I have a feeling of accomplishment, or relief; “Well now that’s done: and I’m glad it’s over,” as the woman says in The Wasteland (about another subject). But in the case of Septology, I feel bereft. It’s ...Read more
- And of a MarriageAnatomy of a Fall a film by Justine Triet. With Sandra Huller, Milo Machado Graner, Samuel Theis. Streaming on Amazon Prime. ***** A friend whose opinion I respect recently said he hated this movie—and all courtroom dramas—because many things take place that never happen in a courtroom. I can’t argue with that, not having been in ...Read more
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