Category: death-and-dying

  • Why Not?
    Why Religion? A Personal Story by Elaine Pagels.  Ecco.  235 pp. $27.99 ****1/2 Why Religion? is a slender graceful memoir, a rare thing in these social media days when people think their every moment is worth recording.  It is directed at the question which the title asks, which meant different things to author Elaine Pagels at ...
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  • Better Than I Expected
    The Upside.  A film by Neil Burger.  With Kevin Hart, Bryan Cranston, Nicole Kidman, Julianna Margulies.  **** I went to this movie because I hadn’t been to the movies for a while, I was looking for something not too heavy, and I had seen the trailer any number of times, of Kevin Hart looking after a ...
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  • That Sinking Feeling
    Another Rohatsu Sesshin Down the Tubes             The day before sesshin began—we always start on Friday evening—I told a friend from the Zen Center that I didn’t think I’d be able to have lunch with her on Friday after all. I had too much to do.  “Yeah,” she said.  “Me too.  It’s kind of like you’re preparing ...
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  • Coming Home
    An Odyssey: A Father, a Son, and an Epic by Daniel Mendelsohn.  Vintage.  306 pp.   $16.00 **** I’m a sucker for father-son stories, and this one is unique; several years ago, Daniel Mendelsohn’s 81-year-old father asked if he could attend the freshman seminar on The Odyssey that Mendelsohn was teaching at Bard College.  The elder Mendelsohn ...
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  • Infinity in a Grain of Sand
    Forever a series by Alan Yang and Matt Hubbard.  With Maya Rudolph, Fred Armisen, Catherine Keener, Noah Robbins.  ***** Forever is one of the most unusual things I’ve ever seen on a screen.  It’s composed of eight episodes roughly thirty minutes long, so my wife and I watched it over two nights.  The difficulty with writing ...
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  • Your Body Is the Universe
    The Practice of Pure Awareness: Somatic Meditation for Awakening the Sacred by Reginald Ray.  Shambhala.  286 pp.  $18.95. ****1/2 It’s said that we read dharma books originally for inspiration, then years later for confirmation of what we’ve learned.  Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind, for instance, I’ve read at least ten times, and it’s been a different book ...
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  • Right Star, Wrong Prize
    The Wife a film by Bjorn Runge.  With Glenn Close, Jonathan Pryce, Max Irons, Christian Slater.  ***1/2 The reason to see this movie is for the performances, especially the one by Glenn Close, but also Max Irons and Christian Slater.  Jonathan Pryce plays a nebbish named Joe Castleman and does a creditable job, but the man ...
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  • You’ve Just Paid the Artist a Wonderful Compliment
    Now Go to Hell I wrote recently about Samuel R. Delany’s Dark Reflections, a novel in which Delany seems completely present, but has given himself another life.  Instead of being a science fiction writer, Arnold Hawley is a poet.  Instead of living in New York and teaching at Temple, he lives in New York and teaches ...
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  • Addict
    Sabbath’s Theater from Novels 1993-1995 by Philip Roth.  Library of America.  842 pp. ****1/2 Where does all the bitterness come from? I kept asking myself as I read this—brilliant, in many ways—novel by Philip Roth.  I understand that Roth was creating a character, that he was speaking through that character, that Mickey Sabbath is not Philip ...
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  • Trusting the Mind
    The Buddha’s Ultimate Message Some years ago, a publisher asked me to write a Young Adult biography of the Buddha.  It was an obvious assignment in a way; two of my novels had been published as YA’s (though I hadn’t written them that way), and I’d written a fair amount about Buddhism as well.  I could ...
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  • Paranoid Lunacy
    The Death of Stalin a film by Armando Ianucci.  With Steve Buscemi, Simon Russell Beale, Jeffrey Tambor, Olga Kurylenko, Andrea Riseborough.  ***** Imagine working in an administration whose head man ran things entirely by whim.  He liked you one day and didn’t like you the next, and if he didn’t like you he didn’t like the ...
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  • He Wore a Special Bra
    The Buddha: An Alternative Narrative of his Life and Teaching by Mukunda Rao.  Harper Element.  192 pp. $14.99  ***? I agree with the basic premise of this book.  The Buddha’s life is exemplary, not strictly factual, and we can fill it in any way we want.  (Thich Nhat Hanh, to mention one more “biographer,” created a ...
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  • Choosing Life
    The Light That Shines Through Infinity: Zen and the Energy of Life by Dainin Katagiri.  Shambhala.  229 pp.  $16.95. Jesus’ Son  Stories by Denis Johnson.  Picador.  133 pp. $15.00 It was unnerving for me to read Denis Johnson’s excellent but disturbing book of stories at the same time I was reading the new book of lectures by ...
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  • Who You Really Are (You Knew All Along)
    Coco a film by Lee Unkrich and Adrian Molina.  With Anthony Gonzalez, Gael Garcia Bernal, Benjamin Bratt, Alanna Ubach.  ***** I went to this movie as an act of desperation.  Every day I read in the New York Times about the marvelous movies that are arriving for the holiday season and the great reviews they’ve gotten, ...
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  • My Elmore Leonard Problem
    Out of Sight from Four Later Novels by Elmore Leonard.  Library of America.  961 pp. $40.00. I’m coming to the end of my Elmore Leonard period.  I never thought, when I decided to look into his Detroit novels because my son now lives in Detroit and I’ve gotten to know the place a little, that I ...
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  • True Love
    Single White Monk: Tales of Death, Failure, and Bad Sex by Shozan Jack Haubner.  Shambhala.  208 pp. $14.95. I was not a big fan of Shozan Jack Haubner’s first book, Zen Confidential.  I thought it was overwritten, and that he often seemed to be trying too hard.  I did appreciate his honesty, and the way he ...
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  • The Father and I Are One
    A Buddhist Reads the Bible (and Finds the Buddha): The Gospel of John  One of the more interesting reactions to my piece on Jesus the Jew was from my brother Bill, a scholar of languages and the Bible who reads in both Greek and Hebrew.  He said that the Synoptic Gospels were about the Galilean Jesus, ...
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  • The Whiteness of the Whale
    Moby Dick by Herman Melville.  Library of America.  638 pp. I’ve recently expressed my admiration for the Library of America and its beautiful editions, but I was disappointed by the Melville Chronology in this volume, which seemed positively paltry.  Elmore Leonard gets 27 pages and Herman Melville gets five?  My brother tells me there’s a famous ...
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  • They Couldn’t Just Run Off in Her Prius?
    Victoria and Abdul a film by Stephen Frears.  With Judi Dench, Ali Fazal, Tim Pigott-Smith, Eddie Izzard.  *** I found this movie captivating.  The story of an unlikely friendship between an aging Queen Victoria (Judy Dench) and an Indian servant named Abdul (Ali Fayal), it shows the lonely old woman—who has let herself go to the ...
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  • Can an Authentic Teacher Be Rich?
    The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.  New World Library.  235 pp. It seems strange to write about a book that not only came out many years ago, but that became an international bestseller and made its author a spiritual superstar.  But a few weeks ago, when I felt on shaky ground because of some things ...
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