Category: death-and-dying

  • Too Much Thinking
    Call It Grace: Finding Meaning in a Fractured World by Serene Jones.  Viking.  310 pp. ***1/2 Four Men Shaking: Searching for Sanity with Samuel Beckett, Norman Mailer, and My Perfect Zen Teacher by Lawrence Shainberg.  Shambhala.  134 pp. $16.95.  ****1/2 “To stop your mind does not mean to stop the activities of mind. It means your mind ...
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  • And Actually Is
    The World Could Be Otherwise: Imagination and the Bodhisattva Path by Norman Fisher.  Shambhala.  207 pp. $17.95. ****1/2 It’s an odd title for a book on Buddhism, which is supposed to devote itself to the world as it is.  When Fischer lectured on the book at the Chapel Hill Zen Center, someone asked him about that, ...
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  • Twelve Years Away, Actually
    Somewhere Toward the End a memoir by Diana Athill.  Norton.  182 pp.  $13.95 The good news about Somewhere Towards the End is that, at the age of 89, Diana Athill still had all her marbles and wrote as well as ever, perhaps better.  Her prose seemed to gain in confidence through the years.  The bad news ...
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  • Shit Happens, Thank God
    The Biggest Little Farm a film by John Chester.  With Molly Chester, Matthew Pilachowski.  ****1/2 My wife and I had a million questions when we walked out of The Biggest Little Farm, the charming and rather amazing documentary that we almost didn’t notice, then went to at the last minute.  Where, first of all, did John ...
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  • Relaxing the Frontal Lobe
    The Light That Shines Through Infinity: Zen and the Energy of Life by Dainin Katagiri.  Shambhala.  229 pp.  $16.95. I’ve always thought of Dainin Katagiri as a difficult Zen teacher, partly because I read Returning to Silence when I was new to Zen and found it confounding.  He was a rough contemporary of Shunryu Suzuki, and ...
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  • The Tragic Hero of Our Time Is a Wizened Old Man (Played by a Woman)
    King Lear by William Shakespeare.  Directed by Sam Gold.  With Glenda Jackson, Jayne Houdyshell, Elizabeth Marvel, Ruth Wilson It’s fascinating the way works of art change through the course of one’s life.  When I first read Don Quixote—as a junior in college—it seemed a comic work about a befuddled old man who had fallen in love ...
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  • Everyday Saint
    Diane a film by Kent Jones.  With Mary Kay Place, Jake Lacy, Estelle Parsons, Andrea Martin **** I’ve seen gritty working class movies before, but never seen a scene quite like one in Diane, where family members and friends are gathered around a small greasy table in a tiny kitchen, and people are drinking soda or ...
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  • Gateway to Eternity
    Okumura Zen In the first week of this month we hosted Shohaku Okumura for a Genzo-e sesshin, a special retreat where there are two ninety-minute lectures per day, in a classroom setting, and we spend the rest of the time in zazen, except for our hour-long work period.  Okumura Roshi lectured this time on Menju, the ...
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  • Don’t Fight the Water
    Zazen in the Spirit of Shinjin The Spring 2019 issue of Tricycle includes a marvelous teaching by Kenneth Tanaka entitled “The Seven Phases of a Drowning Sailor.”  Apparently the story itself exists in Shin Buddhism, but Tanaka divided it up into seven parts to indicate stages of realization.  He had in mind the Ten Oxherding pictures ...
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  • Why Not?
    Why Religion? A Personal Story by Elaine Pagels.  Ecco.  235 pp. $27.99 ****1/2 Why Religion? is a slender graceful memoir, a rare thing in these social media days when people think their every moment is worth recording.  It is directed at the question which the title asks, which meant different things to author Elaine Pagels at ...
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  • Better Than I Expected
    The Upside.  A film by Neil Burger.  With Kevin Hart, Bryan Cranston, Nicole Kidman, Julianna Margulies.  **** I went to this movie because I hadn’t been to the movies for a while, I was looking for something not too heavy, and I had seen the trailer any number of times, of Kevin Hart looking after a ...
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  • That Sinking Feeling
    Another Rohatsu Sesshin Down the Tubes             The day before sesshin began—we always start on Friday evening—I told a friend from the Zen Center that I didn’t think I’d be able to have lunch with her on Friday after all. I had too much to do.  “Yeah,” she said.  “Me too.  It’s kind of like you’re preparing ...
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  • Coming Home
    An Odyssey: A Father, a Son, and an Epic by Daniel Mendelsohn.  Vintage.  306 pp.   $16.00 **** I’m a sucker for father-son stories, and this one is unique; several years ago, Daniel Mendelsohn’s 81-year-old father asked if he could attend the freshman seminar on The Odyssey that Mendelsohn was teaching at Bard College.  The elder Mendelsohn ...
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  • Infinity in a Grain of Sand
    Forever a series by Alan Yang and Matt Hubbard.  With Maya Rudolph, Fred Armisen, Catherine Keener, Noah Robbins.  ***** Forever is one of the most unusual things I’ve ever seen on a screen.  It’s composed of eight episodes roughly thirty minutes long, so my wife and I watched it over two nights.  The difficulty with writing ...
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  • Your Body Is the Universe
    The Practice of Pure Awareness: Somatic Meditation for Awakening the Sacred by Reginald Ray.  Shambhala.  286 pp.  $18.95. ****1/2 It’s said that we read dharma books originally for inspiration, then years later for confirmation of what we’ve learned.  Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind, for instance, I’ve read at least ten times, and it’s been a different book ...
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  • Right Star, Wrong Prize
    The Wife a film by Bjorn Runge.  With Glenn Close, Jonathan Pryce, Max Irons, Christian Slater.  ***1/2 The reason to see this movie is for the performances, especially the one by Glenn Close, but also Max Irons and Christian Slater.  Jonathan Pryce plays a nebbish named Joe Castleman and does a creditable job, but the man ...
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  • You’ve Just Paid the Artist a Wonderful Compliment
    Now Go to Hell I wrote recently about Samuel R. Delany’s Dark Reflections, a novel in which Delany seems completely present, but has given himself another life.  Instead of being a science fiction writer, Arnold Hawley is a poet.  Instead of living in New York and teaching at Temple, he lives in New York and teaches ...
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  • Addict
    Sabbath’s Theater from Novels 1993-1995 by Philip Roth.  Library of America.  842 pp. ****1/2 Where does all the bitterness come from? I kept asking myself as I read this—brilliant, in many ways—novel by Philip Roth.  I understand that Roth was creating a character, that he was speaking through that character, that Mickey Sabbath is not Philip ...
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  • Trusting the Mind
    The Buddha’s Ultimate Message Some years ago, a publisher asked me to write a Young Adult biography of the Buddha.  It was an obvious assignment in a way; two of my novels had been published as YA’s (though I hadn’t written them that way), and I’d written a fair amount about Buddhism as well.  I could ...
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  • Paranoid Lunacy
    The Death of Stalin a film by Armando Ianucci.  With Steve Buscemi, Simon Russell Beale, Jeffrey Tambor, Olga Kurylenko, Andrea Riseborough.  ***** Imagine working in an administration whose head man ran things entirely by whim.  He liked you one day and didn’t like you the next, and if he didn’t like you he didn’t like the ...
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